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Let Your Body Lead

Writer: Shel C
Shel C
Oct 3
5 min read

Updated: Oct 4

Somewhere along the way, we started treating the body as though it were a machine.

Give it the right program, follow the schedule, complete the repetitions, increase the load, track the numbers, push a little harder, rest on the designated day and repeat.


Of course there is nothing wrong with adding structure, in fact, a well-designed training program can be incredibly valuable. However, there is something missing when we reduce movement to sets, repetitions, minutes and metrics.


The body doesn't actually move that way.


It breathes in and out. It shifts weight from one foot to the other. It contracts and releases. It accelerates and slows down. It reaches, recoils, stabilizes and adapts. It responds to the ground beneath it, the space around it, the energy available to it and the demands being placed upon it.


There is rhythm everywhere, and rhythm may be one of the most overlooked elements of effective training.


Rhythm As the Missing Link

Most training programs are built around what you do. Strength training tells you which muscles to load, running tells you how far to go, Yoga gives you a sequence, mobility work gives you positions to explore.


Rhythm requires us to explore - HOW are we moving through this?


There is a natural cadence to almost everything the body does.

  • Walking has rhythm

  • Running has rhythm

  • Breathing has rhythm

  • Strength has rhythm: the effort of lifting followed by the ability to release, recover and prepare for the next effort.


When movement loses that rhythm, it can begin to feel mechanical. We become focused on completing the movement rather than experiencing it and this matters because the body is constantly organizing movement.


Your brain, nervous system, muscles, joints, balance system and senses are communicating with one another every time you move. Some of that communication is conscious, but much of it happens without you having to think about it.


You don't consciously calculate every tiny adjustment required to stay upright while walking across an uneven surface.


Your body figures it out automatically.


Flow Is What Happens When We Listen

Flow is sometimes described as something that happens when we're completely absorbed in an activity, but there is another kind of flow that I think is just as important: the ability to move without constantly interrupting the body's natural conversation.


Think about a child running - there is no internal spreadsheet calculating stride length, cadence and performance metrics. There is simply movement - speed changes - direction changes. The body responds to the environment almost instantaneously.


As adults, we often become much more disconnected from that experience.


We are told exactly how many repetitions to perform and how long to hold a position. We are encouraged to correct every imperfection and measure every improvement. Eventually, we can become so focused on doing movement correctly that we lose our ability to sense what movement actually feels like.


Flow is about being responsive.


It means allowing movement to become a conversation between intention and sensation rather than a command that the body must obey.


Your Body Knows More Than You Think

The body will tell us when to stop trying to overpower it.


Sometimes you begin a workout feeling strong and capable. Sometimes you don't.

Sometimes the weight that felt easy last week feels surprisingly heavy today. Sometimes your balance is different and sometimes your joints feel stiff, your coordination feels off or your energy simply isn't there.


That is information.


Your body is constantly changing according to sleep, stress, recovery, nutrition, environment, hormones, emotion and countless other influences. Expecting it to perform identically every day ignores one of its greatest strengths: adaptability.


Learning to listen to the body allows us to understand the body's signals, and when we understand this, we can challenge it more intelligently.


We can recognize the difference between discomfort that accompanies growth and discomfort that is asking us to change direction. We can know when to push, when to modify and when to recover.


Training the Body to Adapt

The goal of training shouldn't be to make the body stronger, faster or more flexible - it should be to make the body more capable of adapting.


  • A body that can produce force and then recover

  • A body that can move slowly and quickly

  • A body that can stabilize when necessary and soften when stability is no longer required

  • A body that can respond to an unexpected step, an uneven surface, a change in direction or simply a different day


This is where rhythm becomes powerful.


Rhythm creates variation without chaos. It allows effort and recovery to exist together. It teaches the body that movement isn't one continuous demand for output.

  • There are moments to work

  • There are moments to release

  • There are moments to hold steady

  • There are moments to move freely


And there are moments when the most intelligent thing the body can do is stop.


Maybe Your Workout Needs Less Control

We have become very comfortable controlling our bodies.

Counting them. Tracking them. Correcting them. Comparing them.


Becoming more skilled at movement requires us to occasionally loosen our grip.

  • Notice your breath

  • Notice your pace

  • Notice where movement feels effortless and where you're forcing it

  • Notice whether you're moving because your body is ready to move or because your program says you should


There is a difference between following a program and being in relationship with your body.


The first asks you to execute - The second asks you to pay attention.


I don't think we need to choose one over the other. Structure gives us a framework and body intelligence tells us how to inhabit it.


Move With Your Body, Not Just Through It

The older I get, the less interested I am in movement that simply produces an impressive result and the more interested I become in movement that develops a relationship with the body.


Because ultimately, we aren't training for the workout - we're training for life.


Life doesn't happen in perfectly controlled repetitions. It asks us to bend down and get back up, carry something awkward, walk further than expected, change direction, catch our balance, climb stairs, sit on the floor, get out of the car, move when we're tired, move when we're energized, and move when our bodies feel different from yesterday.


We need a body that can respond, and responsiveness requires more than strength or flexibility.

  • It requires rhythm

  • It requires awareness

  • It requires the willingness to listen


Your body has been moving, adapting and communicating with you for your entire life.

Intelligent movement isn't about teaching it how to move at all - it's about becoming aware enough to remember that your body already knows.



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